xds: implement lb policy backend metric api

[voidzcy]

Summary:

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Implemented two utility classes for clients to access ORCA backend metric.

OrcaPerRequestUtil provides methods to intercept ClientStreamTracer.Factory with a listener registered to receive per-request ORCA reports.
OrcaOobUtil provides methods to intercept LoadBalancer.Helper with a listener registered to receive out-of-band ORCA reports.

Internal design doc is at go/grpc-lb-policy-backend-metric-api-java

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Codecov Report

Merging #5639 into master will decrease coverage by 0.02%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

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- Coverage     82.38%   82.36%   -0.03%     
+ Complexity     3207     3203       -4     
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  Lines         17031    17031              
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- Hits          14031    14027       -4     
- Misses         2209     2210       +1     
- Partials        791      794       +3

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ	Complexity Δ
.../src/main/java/io/grpc/EquivalentAddressGroup.java	66.66% <0%> (-7.41%)	10% <0%> (-1%)
...rc/main/java/io/grpc/netty/NettyClientHandler.java	87.68% <0%> (-0.91%)	55% <0%> (-2%)
...rc/main/java/io/grpc/netty/NettyServerHandler.java	80.58% <0%> (-0.27%)	49% <0%> (-1%)
...ain/java/io/grpc/inprocess/InProcessTransport.java	90.19% <0%> (+0.54%)	31% <0%> (+1%)	⬆️

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[zhangkun83]

Nicely written! Some minor comments.