Redesign all constructors

[jochenwezel]

Current situation

• many overloaded constructors
  • require more maintenance efforts at this project
  • confuse users to use correct overload + difficult to read/maintain user code
  • partially implemented incorrectly
• arguments partially ignored/wrong arguments forwarded

Required changes

• Options class for users as argument bundling several arguments at once
• Support default options per engine
• Support individual options check-up per engine, especially
  • Epplus4 with disabled calculation module by default
  • MsExcel doesn't support disabling of calculation module
• If possible, no breaking changes, but old constructors/API marked as obsolete