Align tsconfig discovery with tsconfck

[Boshen]

Current tsconfig discovery implementation does not handle include, exclude and tsconfig references.

https://github.com/dominikg/tsconfck

[shulaoda]

Related code:

https://github.com/vitejs/vite/blob/e3a6a83406943bc59a9916cae3f25ab33c2b5802/packages/vite/src/node/plugins/esbuild.ts#L501-L510
https://github.com/dominikg/tsconfck/blob/68554fa8b99cd02dc6ca96bcdbcd4e04123986ef/packages/tsconfck/src/parse.js#L43-L57
https://github.com/dominikg/tsconfck/blob/68554fa8b99cd02dc6ca96bcdbcd4e04123986ef/packages/tsconfck/src/util.js#L137-L158

[sapphi-red]

https://github.com/microsoft/TypeScript/blob/c63de15a992d37f0d6cec03ac7631872838602cb/src/server/editorServices.ts#L2692-L2713

[Boshen]

• feat: port tsconfck (find tsconfig files) #854
• feat: add resolve_file API for tsconfig auto discovery to work #860