[compiler] Adjustments to exhaustive deps messages, disable the lint rule (#35192)

Similar to ValidateHookUsage, we implement this check in the compiler
for safety but (for now) continue to rely on the existing rule for
actually reporting errors to users.

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* #35201
* #35202
* __->__ #35192

DiffTrain build for [9599e7a](9599e7a)

Author: josephsavona

compiled/eslint-plugin-react-hooks/index.js

@@ -18353,7 +18353,7 @@ function getRuleForCategoryImpl(category) {
                 severity: ErrorSeverity.Error,
                 name: 'memo-dependencies',
                 description: 'Validates that useMemo() and useCallback() specify comprehensive dependencies without extraneous values. See [`useMemo()` docs](https://react.dev/reference/react/useMemo) for more information.',
-                preset: LintRulePreset.RecommendedLatest,
+                preset: LintRulePreset.Off,
             };
         }
         case ErrorCategory.IncompatibleLibrary: {
@@ -53621,7 +53621,7 @@ function validateExhaustiveDependencies(fn) {
             if (missing.length !== 0) {
                 const diagnostic = CompilerDiagnostic.create({
                     category: ErrorCategory.MemoDependencies,
-                    reason: 'Found non-exhaustive dependencies',
+                    reason: 'Found missing memoization dependencies',
                     description: 'Missing dependencies can cause a value not to update when those inputs change, ' +
                         'resulting in stale UI',
                     suggestions,
@@ -53645,7 +53645,7 @@ function validateExhaustiveDependencies(fn) {
                     category: ErrorCategory.MemoDependencies,
                     reason: 'Found unnecessary memoization dependencies',
                     description: 'Unnecessary dependencies can cause a value to update more often than necessary, ' +
-                        'which can cause effects to run more than expected',
+                        'causing performance regressions and effects to fire more often than expected',
                 });
                 diagnostic.withDetails({
                     kind: 'error',
@@ -54170,8 +54170,10 @@ function runWithEnvironment(func, env) {
     }
     inferReactivePlaces(hir);
     log({ kind: 'hir', name: 'InferReactivePlaces', value: hir });
-    if (env.config.validateExhaustiveMemoizationDependencies) {
-        validateExhaustiveDependencies(hir).unwrap();
+    if (env.enableValidations) {
+        if (env.config.validateExhaustiveMemoizationDependencies) {
+            validateExhaustiveDependencies(hir).unwrap();
+        }
     }
     rewriteInstructionKindsBasedOnReassignment(hir);
     log({

compiled/facebook-www/REVISION

@@ -1 +1 @@
-67c1487ffd872c95a3bb7d8104eac6eca79fe8cb
+9599e7a787cce2a41c35d783d45a160dfebab277

compiled/facebook-www/REVISION_TRANSFORMS

@@ -1 +1 @@
-67c1487ffd872c95a3bb7d8104eac6eca79fe8cb
+9599e7a787cce2a41c35d783d45a160dfebab277

compiled/facebook-www/React-dev.classic.js

@@ -1499,7 +1499,7 @@ __DEV__ &&
     exports.useTransition = function () {
       return resolveDispatcher().useTransition();
     };
-    exports.version = "19.3.0-www-classic-67c1487f-20251124";
+    exports.version = "19.3.0-www-classic-9599e7a7-20251124";
     "undefined" !== typeof __REACT_DEVTOOLS_GLOBAL_HOOK__ &&
       "function" ===
         typeof __REACT_DEVTOOLS_GLOBAL_HOOK__.registerInternalModuleStop &&

compiled/facebook-www/React-dev.modern.js

@@ -1499,7 +1499,7 @@ __DEV__ &&
     exports.useTransition = function () {
       return resolveDispatcher().useTransition();
     };
-    exports.version = "19.3.0-www-modern-67c1487f-20251124";
+    exports.version = "19.3.0-www-modern-9599e7a7-20251124";
     "undefined" !== typeof __REACT_DEVTOOLS_GLOBAL_HOOK__ &&
       "function" ===
         typeof __REACT_DEVTOOLS_GLOBAL_HOOK__.registerInternalModuleStop &&

compiled/facebook-www/React-prod.classic.js

@@ -606,4 +606,4 @@ exports.useSyncExternalStore = function (
 exports.useTransition = function () {
   return ReactSharedInternals.H.useTransition();
 };
-exports.version = "19.3.0-www-classic-67c1487f-20251124";
+exports.version = "19.3.0-www-classic-9599e7a7-20251124";

compiled/facebook-www/React-prod.modern.js

@@ -606,4 +606,4 @@ exports.useSyncExternalStore = function (
 exports.useTransition = function () {
   return ReactSharedInternals.H.useTransition();
 };
-exports.version = "19.3.0-www-modern-67c1487f-20251124";
+exports.version = "19.3.0-www-modern-9599e7a7-20251124";

compiled/facebook-www/React-profiling.classic.js

@@ -610,7 +610,7 @@ exports.useSyncExternalStore = function (
 exports.useTransition = function () {
   return ReactSharedInternals.H.useTransition();
 };
-exports.version = "19.3.0-www-classic-67c1487f-20251124";
+exports.version = "19.3.0-www-classic-9599e7a7-20251124";
 "undefined" !== typeof __REACT_DEVTOOLS_GLOBAL_HOOK__ &&
   "function" ===
     typeof __REACT_DEVTOOLS_GLOBAL_HOOK__.registerInternalModuleStop &&

compiled/facebook-www/React-profiling.modern.js

@@ -610,7 +610,7 @@ exports.useSyncExternalStore = function (
 exports.useTransition = function () {
   return ReactSharedInternals.H.useTransition();
 };
-exports.version = "19.3.0-www-modern-67c1487f-20251124";
+exports.version = "19.3.0-www-modern-9599e7a7-20251124";
 "undefined" !== typeof __REACT_DEVTOOLS_GLOBAL_HOOK__ &&
   "function" ===
     typeof __REACT_DEVTOOLS_GLOBAL_HOOK__.registerInternalModuleStop &&

compiled/facebook-www/ReactART-dev.classic.js

@@ -20468,10 +20468,10 @@ __DEV__ &&
     (function () {
       var internals = {
         bundleType: 1,
-        version: "19.3.0-www-classic-67c1487f-20251124",
+        version: "19.3.0-www-classic-9599e7a7-20251124",
         rendererPackageName: "react-art",
         currentDispatcherRef: ReactSharedInternals,
-        reconcilerVersion: "19.3.0-www-classic-67c1487f-20251124"
+        reconcilerVersion: "19.3.0-www-classic-9599e7a7-20251124"
       };
       internals.overrideHookState = overrideHookState;
       internals.overrideHookStateDeletePath = overrideHookStateDeletePath;
@@ -20506,7 +20506,7 @@ __DEV__ &&
     exports.Shape = Shape;
     exports.Surface = Surface;
     exports.Text = Text;
-    exports.version = "19.3.0-www-classic-67c1487f-20251124";
+    exports.version = "19.3.0-www-classic-9599e7a7-20251124";
     "undefined" !== typeof __REACT_DEVTOOLS_GLOBAL_HOOK__ &&
       "function" ===
         typeof __REACT_DEVTOOLS_GLOBAL_HOOK__.registerInternalModuleStop &&