[C++] Use validations from Validate(array) to make RunEndEncodedArray::Make safer

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Describe the enhancement requested

The limitations of RunEndEncodedArray::Make came up when exposing REEs in pyarrow (#34570). Bringing the validations from Validate to Make prevents bad parameters from being passed to RunEndEncodedArray constructor.

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