[FEA] Support for loading NVVM from a wheel

[gmarkall]

NVVM distributed in a wheel is not currently located by the library detection mechanisms. Additional logic to locate NVVM in a wheel is required.

This is distributed in the nvidia-cuda-nvcc-cu12 wheel.

[gmarkall]

Patch possibly in https://github.com/NVIDIA/nvmath-python/blob/main/nvmath/device/patch.py

[leofang]

Follow-up: #277