add option callback priority field in options

[phlptp]

Adds a callback priority to options for fine grained control of when option callbacks execute.
Add the handers for the different priorities in the processing of the arguments

Fixes #1221
Alternative to #1204

[codecov]

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✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 100.00%. Comparing base (e4ee3af) to head (5eb952f).
⚠️ Report is 129 commits behind head on main.

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