Avoid double proxying for `@Resource` `@Lazy` fallback autowiring

[jhoeller]

The @Lazy support for @Resource injection points (as implemented in CommonAnnotationBeanPostProcessor) can lead to double proxying in case of fallback autowiring when no bean of the given name could be found, since DefaultListableBeanFactory.resolveDependency performs its own lazy proxy resolution in such a scenario. Addressing this through a refactored resolution algorithm also aligns with our upcoming AOT support for @Resource (#29614).