RUBY-2550 Support connecting to servers that require API version to be specified

 (#2188)

* RUBY-2550 Support connecting to servers that require API version to be specified

* tests fail on replica sets and sharded clusters, skip those

Co-authored-by: Oleg Pudeyev <[email protected]>

Author: p-mongo

source/tutorials/ruby-driver-database-tasks.txt

@@ -52,8 +52,7 @@ To execute any command on the database, use the ``command`` method.
   Specifying server API version as a client option and also specifying
   any of the respective command parameters to the ``command`` method
   (i.e. the ``apiVersion``, ``apiStrict`` and ``apiDeprecationErrors``
-  command parameters) at the same time is not allowed, and the result
-  of attempting to do so is undefined.
+  command parameters) at the same time is not allowed and will produce an error.
 
 
 Drop Database