Move CandidateRouteHop enum variant fields into structs

The bindings generator struggles a bit with the references in enum
variant fields in `CandidateRouteHop`. While we could probably fix
this, its much eaiser (and less risky) to inline the enum variant
fields from `CandidateRouteHop` into structs. This also lets us
make some of the fields non-public, which seems better at least for
the opaque `hint_idx` in the blinded paths.

Author: TheBlueMatt