[Epic] Complete Initial `StringView` in DataFusion

[alamb]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

This ticket is a follow on to #10918 where we implemented enough initial support for StringView / BinaryView that we can show some pretty sweet ClickBench results

Describe the solution you'd like

This epic tracks remaining work to complete the "initial" work which I would like to define as "enable using StringView when reading Strings from Parquet by default"

I am sure there will be additional work / support to add StringView to various other features of DataFusion that we can maybe track with another follow on ticket

Required for enabling StringView by default:

• Enable reading StringView by default from Parquet (schema_force_string_view) by default #11682
• Support string concat || for StringViewArray #11766
• COUNT(DISTINCT) on StringView panics: unreachable code: Utf8/Binary should use ArrowBytesSet #11767
• Support protobuf serialization for ScalarValue::Utf8View and ScalarValue::BinaryView #12117
• Support substrait serialization for ScalarValue::Utf8View and ScalarValue::BinaryView #12118
• Convert Utf8View/BinaryView --> Utf8 / Binary at output #12119
• Parquet statistics missing when reading Utf8 as Utf8View #12123
• Support StringView for binary operators like ~, !~, etc #12180
• Support applying parquet bloom filters to StringView columns #12499
• Support Binary --> String coercion for StringView/BinaryView in LIKE #12500
• Casting from Binary --> Utf8 to evaluate LIKE slows down some ClickBench queries  #12509

Could work around but really should be fixed upstream

• Support casting BinaryView --> Utf8 and LargeUtf8 arrow-rs#6162
• Add support for StringView and BinaryView statistics in StatisticsConverter arrow-rs#6164
• Make StringViewArray::slice() and BinaryViewArray::slice() faster / non allocating arrow-rs#6408

Additional "Nice to have" Features

• [Epic] Native StringView support for string functions #11790
• Reduce copying in CoalesceBatchesExec for StringViews #11628
• Cast Utf8 -> Utf8View (not the other way around) for binary operators #11881
• Improve performance of SUBSTR for StringViewArray #12031
• Improve performance of REPEAT functions #12015
• [Epic] Complete Initial StringView in DataFusion #11752
• Automate testing / ensuring that string functions get the same answer for String, LargeString, StringView, DictionaryString, etc  #12415