diff --git a/.changeset/tangy-aliens-end.md b/.changeset/tangy-aliens-end.md
new file mode 100644
index 000000000000..d2dc04d32866
--- /dev/null
+++ b/.changeset/tangy-aliens-end.md
@@ -0,0 +1,5 @@
+---
+'@sveltejs/kit': patch
+---
+
+breaking: remove `submitter` option from experimental form `validate()` method, always provide default submitter
diff --git a/packages/kit/src/exports/public.d.ts b/packages/kit/src/exports/public.d.ts
index 1ef333310326..cda0790e5873 100644
--- a/packages/kit/src/exports/public.d.ts
+++ b/packages/kit/src/exports/public.d.ts
@@ -2053,8 +2053,6 @@ export type RemoteForm<Input extends RemoteFormInput | void, Output> = {
 		includeUntouched?: boolean;
 		/** Set this to `true` to only run the `preflight` validation. */
 		preflightOnly?: boolean;
-		/** Perform validation as if the form was submitted by the given button. */
-		submitter?: HTMLButtonElement | HTMLInputElement;
 	}): Promise<void>;
 	/** The result of the form submission */
 	get result(): Output | undefined;
diff --git a/packages/kit/src/runtime/client/remote-functions/form.svelte.js b/packages/kit/src/runtime/client/remote-functions/form.svelte.js
index 02bbf9239720..38e5c3cd1790 100644
--- a/packages/kit/src/runtime/client/remote-functions/form.svelte.js
+++ b/packages/kit/src/runtime/client/remote-functions/form.svelte.js
@@ -519,7 +519,7 @@ export function form(id) {
 			},
 			validate: {
 				/** @type {RemoteForm<any, any>['validate']} */
-				value: async ({ includeUntouched = false, preflightOnly = false, submitter } = {}) => {
+				value: async ({ includeUntouched = false, preflightOnly = false } = {}) => {
 					if (!element) return;
 
 					const id = ++validate_id;
@@ -527,7 +527,11 @@ export function form(id) {
 					// wait a tick in case the user is calling validate() right after set() which takes time to propagate
 					await tick();
 
-					const form_data = new FormData(element, submitter);
+					const default_submitter = /** @type {HTMLElement | undefined} */ (
+						element.querySelector('button, [type="submit"]')
+					);
+
+					const form_data = new FormData(element, default_submitter);
 
 					/** @type {InternalRemoteFormIssue[]} */
 					let array = [];
diff --git a/packages/kit/test/apps/basics/src/routes/remote/form/validate/+page.svelte b/packages/kit/test/apps/basics/src/routes/remote/form/validate/+page.svelte
index 6d53630be4ac..b216d778df52 100644
--- a/packages/kit/test/apps/basics/src/routes/remote/form/validate/+page.svelte
+++ b/packages/kit/test/apps/basics/src/routes/remote/form/validate/+page.svelte
@@ -5,9 +5,9 @@
 	const schema = v.object({
 		foo: v.picklist(['a', 'b', 'c']),
 		bar: v.picklist(['d', 'e']),
-		button: v.optional(v.literal('submitter'))
+		button: v.literal('submitter')
 	});
-	let submitter;
+
 	$inspect(my_form.fields.allIssues());
 </script>
 
@@ -24,19 +24,17 @@
 
 	<input {...my_form.fields.bar.as('text')} />
 
-	<button>submit (imperative validation)</button>
+	<button {...my_form.fields.button.as('submit', 'incorrect_value')}> submit </button>
 
-	<button bind:this={submitter} {...my_form.fields.button.as('submit', 'incorrect_value')}>
-		submit
-	</button>
 	{#each my_form.fields.button.issues() as issue}
 		<p>{issue.message}</p>
 	{/each}
+
+	<button {...my_form.fields.button.as('submit', 'submitter')}>
+		submit (imperative validation)
+	</button>
 </form>
-<button
-	id="trigger-validate"
-	onclick={() => my_form.validate({ includeUntouched: true, submitter })}
->
+<button id="trigger-validate" onclick={() => my_form.validate({ includeUntouched: true })}>
 	trigger validation
 </button>
 
diff --git a/packages/kit/test/apps/basics/src/routes/remote/form/validate/form.remote.ts b/packages/kit/test/apps/basics/src/routes/remote/form/validate/form.remote.ts
index c3ae78ab9854..6c2db149cb7f 100644
--- a/packages/kit/test/apps/basics/src/routes/remote/form/validate/form.remote.ts
+++ b/packages/kit/test/apps/basics/src/routes/remote/form/validate/form.remote.ts
@@ -5,7 +5,7 @@ export const my_form = form(
 	v.object({
 		foo: v.picklist(['a', 'b', 'c']),
 		bar: v.picklist(['d', 'e', 'f']),
-		button: v.optional(v.literal('submitter'))
+		button: v.literal('submitter')
 	}),
 	async (data, invalid) => {
 		// Test imperative validation
diff --git a/packages/kit/types/index.d.ts b/packages/kit/types/index.d.ts
index 9705e4a0b9bd..cb007c9b4ee3 100644
--- a/packages/kit/types/index.d.ts
+++ b/packages/kit/types/index.d.ts
@@ -2029,8 +2029,6 @@ declare module '@sveltejs/kit' {
 			includeUntouched?: boolean;
 			/** Set this to `true` to only run the `preflight` validation. */
 			preflightOnly?: boolean;
-			/** Perform validation as if the form was submitted by the given button. */
-			submitter?: HTMLButtonElement | HTMLInputElement;
 		}): Promise<void>;
 		/** The result of the form submission */
 		get result(): Output | undefined;