diff --git a/docs/rtk-query/usage/queries.mdx b/docs/rtk-query/usage/queries.mdx
index 0448cf667d..74a00ea1bb 100644
--- a/docs/rtk-query/usage/queries.mdx
+++ b/docs/rtk-query/usage/queries.mdx
@@ -123,7 +123,29 @@ The `queryArg` param will be passed through to the underlying `query` callback t
 
 :::caution
 
-The `queryArg` param is handed to a `useEffect` dependency array internally. RTK Query tries to keep the argument stable by performing a `shallowEquals` diff on the value, however if you pass a deeper nested argument, you will need to keep the param stable yourself, e.g. with `useMemo`.
+The `queryArg` param is handed to a `useEffect` dependency array internally.
+RTK Query tries to keep the argument stable by performing a `shallowEquals` diff on the value,
+however if you pass a deeper nested argument, you will need to keep the param stable yourself,
+e.g. with `useMemo`.
+
+```diff
+  function FilterList({ kind, sortField = 'created_at', sortOrder = 'ASC' }) {
+-   // The `sort` object would fail the internal shallow stability check and be new every render
+-   const result = useMyQuery({
+-     kind,
+-     sort: { field: sortField, order: sortOrder },
+-   })
+
++   // `useMemo` can be used to maintain stability for the entire argument object
++   const queryArg = useMemo(
++     () => ({ kind, sort: { field: sortField, order: sortOrder } }),
++     [kind, sortField, sortOrder]
++   )
++   const result = useMyQuery(queryArg)
+
+    return <div>...</div>
+  }
+```
 
 :::
 
diff --git a/packages/toolkit/src/query/react/buildHooks.ts b/packages/toolkit/src/query/react/buildHooks.ts
index d956bb1a91..3dfdfda5c0 100644
--- a/packages/toolkit/src/query/react/buildHooks.ts
+++ b/packages/toolkit/src/query/react/buildHooks.ts
@@ -46,6 +46,7 @@ import type {
 } from '@reduxjs/toolkit/dist/query/core/module'
 import type { ReactHooksModuleOptions } from './module'
 import { useShallowStableValue } from './useShallowStableValue'
+import { useStabilityMonitor } from './useStabilityMonitor'
 import type { UninitializedValue } from './constants'
 import { UNINITIALIZED_VALUE } from './constants'
 
@@ -506,6 +507,10 @@ export function buildHooks<Definitions extends EndpointDefinitions>({
       >
       const dispatch = useDispatch<ThunkDispatch<any, any, AnyAction>>()
       const stableArg = useShallowStableValue(skip ? skipToken : arg)
+      useStabilityMonitor(stableArg, {
+        errMsg:
+          'The Query argument has been detected as changing too many times within a short period. See https://redux-toolkit.js.org/rtk-query/usage/queries#query-hook-options for more information on how to stabilize the argument and fix this issue.',
+      })
       const stableSubscriptionOptions = useShallowStableValue({
         refetchOnReconnect,
         refetchOnFocus,
diff --git a/packages/toolkit/src/query/react/useStabilityMonitor.ts b/packages/toolkit/src/query/react/useStabilityMonitor.ts
new file mode 100644
index 0000000000..9359732ff8
--- /dev/null
+++ b/packages/toolkit/src/query/react/useStabilityMonitor.ts
@@ -0,0 +1,42 @@
+import { useRef, useEffect } from 'react'
+
+/**
+ * Monitors the 'stability' of the provided value across renders.
+ * If the value changes more times than the threshold within the provided
+ * time delta, an error will be through.
+ *
+ * Defaults to throwing if changing 10 times in 10 consecutive renders within 1000ms
+ */
+export function useStabilityMonitor<T>(
+  value: T,
+  {
+    delta = 1000,
+    threshold = 10,
+    errMsg = 'Value changed too many times.',
+  } = {}
+) {
+  const lastValue = useRef(value)
+  const consecutiveTimestamps = useRef<number[]>([])
+
+  useEffect(() => {
+    // where a render occurs but value didn't change, consider the value to be 'stable'
+    // and clear recorded timestamps.
+    // i.e. only keep timestamps if the value changes every render
+    if (lastValue.current === value) consecutiveTimestamps.current = []
+    lastValue.current = value
+  })
+
+  useEffect(() => {
+    const now = Date.now()
+    consecutiveTimestamps.current.push(now)
+    consecutiveTimestamps.current = consecutiveTimestamps.current.filter((timestamp) => {
+      return timestamp > now - delta
+    })
+
+    if (consecutiveTimestamps.current.length >= threshold) {
+      const err = new Error(errMsg)
+      Error.captureStackTrace(err, useStabilityMonitor)
+      throw err
+    }
+  }, [value, delta, threshold, errMsg])
+}
diff --git a/packages/toolkit/src/query/tests/buildHooks.test.tsx b/packages/toolkit/src/query/tests/buildHooks.test.tsx
index 18ea3ee57c..2d8300e208 100644
--- a/packages/toolkit/src/query/tests/buildHooks.test.tsx
+++ b/packages/toolkit/src/query/tests/buildHooks.test.tsx
@@ -34,7 +34,7 @@ const api = createApi({
       amount += 1
     }
 
-    if (arg?.body && 'forceError' in arg.body) {
+    if (arg?.body && 'forceError' in arg.body && arg.body.forceError) {
       return {
         error: {
           status: 500,
@@ -65,7 +65,12 @@ const api = createApi({
       query: (update) => ({ body: update }),
     }),
     getError: build.query({
-      query: (query) => '/error',
+      query: (query) => ({
+        url: '/error',
+        body: {
+          forceError: true,
+        },
+      }),
     }),
   }),
 })
@@ -2029,3 +2034,59 @@ describe('skip behaviour', () => {
     expect(subscriptionCount('getUser(1)')).toBe(0)
   })
 })
+
+describe('query arg stability monitoring', () => {
+  type ErrorBoundaryProps = {
+    children: React.ReactNode
+  }
+  class ErrorBoundary extends React.Component<
+    ErrorBoundaryProps,
+    { hasError: boolean; errMsg: string }
+  > {
+    constructor(props: ErrorBoundaryProps) {
+      super(props)
+      this.state = { hasError: false, errMsg: '' }
+    }
+    static getDerivedStateFromError(error: unknown) {
+      return {
+        hasError: true,
+        errMsg: error instanceof Error ? error.message : 'Unknown error',
+      }
+    }
+
+    render() {
+      if (this.state.hasError) {
+        return <div>{this.state.errMsg}</div>
+      }
+      return <>{this.props.children}</>
+    }
+  }
+
+  function FilterList() {
+    const nestedArg = {
+      kind: 'berries',
+      sort: { field: 'created_at', order: 'ASC' },
+    }
+
+    const result = api.endpoints.getError.useQuery(nestedArg)
+
+    return (
+      <div>
+        <div data-testid="isFetching">{String(result.isFetching)}</div>
+      </div>
+    )
+  }
+
+  test('Throws an error early upon an infinite loop due to nested args', async () => {
+    render(
+      <ErrorBoundary>
+        <FilterList />
+      </ErrorBoundary>,
+      { wrapper: storeRef.wrapper }
+    )
+
+    await screen.findByText(
+      /The Query argument has been detected as changing too many times within a short period/i
+    )
+  })
+})