[v8] New Node performance auto instrumentation

[mydea]

In v8, @sentry/node will be backed by OpenTelemetry, which especially brings a host of new auto instrumentation to the table.

This issue tracks what we are planning to support out of the box. Anything that is checked we have tested.

Project Board

### Frameworks
- [x] Express
- [x] Fastify
- [x] Nest.js
- [x] Koa
- [x] Hapi
- [ ] https://github.com/getsentry/sentry-javascript/issues/11405

### Libraries / Databases
- [x] mysql
- [x] mysql2
- [x] pg (including postgres - TODO: verify)
- [x] GraphQL (including Apollo Server)
- [x] mongo
- [x] mongoose
- [x] Prisma

[lforst]

Last item was connect. Should be done now.